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Relationship And Sexual Impurity

Expert Author Gbenga M OwotokiIs it possible for cat and rat to stay peacefully together in the same cage? ABSOLUTELY NO! It is either the cat kills the rat or the rat runs away from the cat for peace to reign. Dear friend, you are not married to that man and yet you want to kill yourself over him? You are in a relationship with a man and all he does is to beat you at the slightest provocation because he has promised you marriage? You keep allowing him to take advantage of you just because of the monetary things he gives you and the promise of taking you to the marriage altar? Can those things buy back your dignity and virtues that you have lost? NO! You don't have to remain in that bondage! Come out! God will provide for your needs and will give you the husband after His heart. Let abuser go with his money and all the other alluring things he brings to you. love is deeper than that.
Don't be scared; your future is not in the things he gives you, your future is in God's hands. Please don't believe the lie that he will change after you get married to him, this is not always the case. A man who beats you up during your courtship or engagement could become a serious wife beater after you are married to him. Relationship is not a do-or-die affair. Who led you into that relationship in the first place? I'm so sure it cannot be God! Don't believe that lie that there are no good men again. That's not true! Decent and godly men still exist. It is just so unfortunate that you got into the wrong hands because you are threading the wrong path. Why not turn to the right direction today where Christ is and you'll discover that God still has great sons that are worthy husbands!
Please come out of that wrong relationship today! Go to God in repentance and let Him give you the Best He has for you. It is not too late. Don't make the devil your father-in-law by marrying his son(a sinner). You cannot succeed with a man if both of you don't agree. Two blind men cannot lead each other. BE WISE! God is waiting to receive you back. No matter what you have lost, He can restore it back. Come into His everlasting arms now and let Him lead you into your glorious future with a man after His Own heart.

Sexual Impurity - Hebrew 13:4 This is one topic many people don't want to hear but whether you like to hear this or not, the truth must be said. It is very important to study the WORD OF GOD daily so as to overcome sexual sin because it is the only place you will find the truth. Out there, people will want to give you the impression that if you want to have sex before marriage, it is pleasurable and sweet but it is all deception. Interestingly when such people get married they still talk about honey moon; but there's no more honey left in their moon they've 'licked all the honey before they got to the moon.' Sex is very deep and MUST NOT be done outside marriage no matter the situation. Soul ties have been created through these acts and many marriages have been destroyed as a result of this.
How do you deal (avoid) with sexual sin. Ephesians 5:3
1. Don't think you are invisible i.e. you will never fall into this sin. 1 Cor. 10:12, Prov. 16:18
2. Build up walls and don't break them down. Prov. 16:17. All of us know this is true, but are we living as if it is true? We know we shouldn't be alone with a member of the opposite sex, but do we keep our rule faithfully? We know we should have working porn filters on our computers, but do we?
3. The battle begins in the mind. You need to know what God says about sex and trust what God says about sex. You need to be careful what you fill your minds with. Imagination is often the hotbed where sin is often hatched.
4. Cut off: Jesus says in Matt 5: 29-30 that if your eye or hand causes you to sin, gouge them out and throw them away, because eternal life is at stake. So if the internet, magazines, TV, or peer groups are causing you to sin; cut them off.
5. Talk about your Struggles: This is accountability. You can't fight this alone. You need God's help and you need God's people's help too. Find someone you trust & share your struggle.
6. Be careful what you put on: Modesty is good for you and good for others too.
7. Remember Jesus is coming back. We all will have to give an account for our lives, even our sex life.
If you are reading this and struggling with this bondage, don't give up. God can break every yoke of sexual addiction off your life. Look up to Him for help and it shall be well with you. God bless you. It shall be well with in Jesus name.
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